DEEP DIVE: GAY PRIDE FLAG COLOR MEANINGS

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!

Welcome and thank you for joining me on my descent into the fascinating world of color meanings and representation. In this post I will explore the meanings behind the 6 colors represented in the gay pride flag.

RED: LIFE

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Red is the purrrfect color to kick things off! It’s the top (first) color in the gay pride flag, making it a logical starting point. Besides that, red is known in Feng Shui circles as the most active of all colors, making it a great color to examine in preparation for a month full of rainbows, parades and glitter-filled celebrations.

In the context of the gay pride flag, red represents life. Indeed, the many variations of red are associated with power and energy, two sure signs of life that I struggle with on a daily basis. The struggle is so real that I’ve done some pretty deep dives into the practice of Feng Shui over the years.

My go-to for any and all design concerns is a document known as a Feng Shui Matrix (or Bagua). I’m not an expert and it’s complex AF, but for the sake of Pride, I reworked the rainbow colors into a Matrix that should work just fine if you dare to dabble.

RAINBOW BAGUA INSTA

Please do dabble carefully – red corresponds with the element of fire.

RED FIRE INSTA

Red also has the ability to deliver powerful messages of warning, some easier to receive than others.

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If you ever happen upon a set of red curtains appearing in a circle of 12 Sycamore trees, know that the color red serves as a warning. Special Agent Cooper, Mr. C, and Dougie Coop know what I’m talking about.

ORANGE: HEALING

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Orange you glad you’re reading this post?!? I know I am.

Orange is the second color in the gay pride flag, and in this context, it means healing. I’ve been struggling with this meaning because it’s so broad, yet so specific in the context of the gay community.

I’m going to keep it broad here and share that I think there are many reasons we all need to heal and many ways to do it. From a Feng Shui perspective, the color orange encourages communication, which connects for me. When I know I need to work through some shit, I find that talking to someone is always a good place to start.

Besides communication, the positive qualities of the color orange include happiness, concentration, and intellect. A negative quality of orange is rebelliousness, but I’m on the fence about this label. Without the rebelliousness of all the activists, artists and allies that work tirelessly toward a more inclusive world, we’d all be in trouble. BIG trouble.

YELLOW: SUNLIGHT

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Yellow, yellow, want some jello? Me either.

I’ve been looking forward to yellow because, in the context of the gay pride flag, it’s the meaning I love and connect with the most. It means sunlight, which, on its own is pretty great. But let’s go a little deeper here – it’s about being yourself instead of hiding in the shadows.

Come out into the light and get some vitamin D, y’all!

Without sunlight, life as we know it would be nearly impossible. This correlates with the designation that Feng Shui practitioners give yellow – it represents the Earth element.

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From a Feng shui perspective, yellow is also known to stimulate the brain and aid digestion. It’s associated with enlightenment, intellect, optimism, reason, and decisiveness.

GREEN: NATURE

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Greed is good. Er, whoops, that’s a whole other thang. Green is the color of money though, and I bet if Gordon Gecko had a favorite color that would be it. This is where I really start feeling the colors of the flag.

In the context of the gay pride flag, green means nature. It’s interesting that green comes after yellow, or sunshine, which makes nature possible. Science!

This meaning is the one I relate to the most. Just this morning, we came upon a baby Black-crowned Night-Heron that had fallen from the nest and landed on the concrete sidewalk. The nest is high in the tree, so baby bird is in rough shape. That’s nature. It can be pretty harsh.

Green represents the wood element in Feng Shui.

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Besides representing the wood element in Feng Shui, green is known as a restful and refreshing color. It symbolizes growth, fertility, and harmony. It is associated with optimism, freedom, and balance.

BLUE: PEACE

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Blue is my favorite color. Like, hard. It’s kind of complex in the context of the gay pride flag though, so I’ve been struggling with this color meaning in particular. To keep it simple, I leveraged the decisive attributes of yellow and decided to focus on one meaning: peace.

I do believe in the concept of world peace and all that jazz, but for now, let’s keep it simple and think about it using the frame of inner peace. 

I know that inner peace would be a beneficial tool for me to have, especially when I’m feeling down or having a bad day. I’m not actually working toward it though, and that’s my bad – it looks really really hard.

Feng Shui practitioners use blue to represent the element water.

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From a Feng Shui perspective, the peaceful and soothing color blue is linked to spirituality, contemplation, mystery, and patience. The positive associations of the color are trust, faithfulness, and stability. The negative associations are suspicion and melancholia, two associations I’m quite familiar with.

PURPLE: SPIRIT

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All month long I’m doing my best to embody the meaning of the color purple – spirit. 

Learning that spirit is the meaning of purple in the context of the gay pride flag is one of the main reasons I decided to do a deep dive into color meanings. I mean, spirit? I think I know what spirit is, but how in the heck can it be articulated? Needless to say, challenge accepted, universe.

For me, this means spending time with people I love, and that love me too (including pets, of course). I’m hanging out in nature, letting myself be creative and am excited for the months and years ahead.

From a Feng Shui perspective, purple is known to be a spiritual color and is thought to encourage vitality. Some positive associations of purple are excitement, passion, and motivation. Negative associations include mournfulness and force. 

THE WRAP UP

I had fun researching the gay pride flag and am delighted to finally share what I know. I invite you to share this post with anyone that may enjoy it and would love to hear your thoughts in the comments.

Until next time, I’ll be trying to live my best life and hope you are too!

Adult Acne? These Crystals Might Help

My interest in crystals has been ramping up lately. The more I learn about the different gems, the more fascinated I become. I’ve got to create when inspiration hits, which it did after a recent Woman of Size Podcast episode.

In this post, I share the graphic, provide a brief summary of each stone, and give credit where credit is due – to the sources.

The Graphic

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The Crystals

Selenite

Selenite is a great crystal for skin conditions. It amplifies healing and pulls away negative energies and blockages that cause that particular skin condition.

Turquoise

Touted as the master healer, turquoise has detoxifying and anti-inflammatory properties, helping to reduce acne breakouts.

Azurite with Malachite

Azurite with Malachite, a combination stone, is a powerful conductor of energy and a powerful healing force for the body. It is an excellent stone for treating all skin conditions.

Black Onyx

Black Onyx is a soothing, cooling stone. Use this stone to help fight infection and calm inflammation. This crystal helps to rebuild confidence and self-esteem.

The Wrap Up

Do you have any crystal recommendations for reducing acne? I’d love to hear them!

In the meantime, I’m working on a few more crystal-related graphics, so be sure to sign up for my newsletter to stay in the loop!

The Sources

https://www.theholisticdirectory.co.uk/articles/story/crystals-for-healing-skin-by-bunmi-aboaba

https://ecologicskincare.co.za/2017/02/crystals-and-complexions/

5 Healing Rocks and Crystals for Flawless Skin

5 Sources of Inspiration from 2017 Holiday Season

Happy New Year!

Before I fully commit to 2018, there are a few things that came out of the 2017 holiday season that can only be described as just plain delightful!

In this post, I’m sharing five things that I found to be surprisingly inspirational this past month.

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PO16702762-frontBoth the phrase and this sweatshirt, which is the newest addition to my holiday wardrobe.

The sweatshirt was a fundraiser to support the Waterfront Partnership of Baltimore, the geniuses behind the Trash Wheel Family.

I’ll detail my love for both Mr. and Professor Trashwheel in a separate post, but for now, here’s a short intro if you’re interested.

Lego Advent Calendars

I’ve mentioned Heidi from Casa Pena Designs in the past, but we’re going to be working together more strategically in 2018. While I was at her office working on some shared 2018 goals, I noticed that her son had some holiday-themed legos, and upon further inspection, it turned out to be an advent calendar! 
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I’m getting one of these for myself next year, as well as all the kiddos in my life!

Puppies Crash Christmas on Hulu

It’s hard to explain, but if you’ve ever seen the Puppy Bowl, it’s along those lines, but without the kitten halftime show.

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I used to travel a lot for work, so I’ve been lucky enough to benefit from free reward programs. It takes some time to accumulate points, but eventually, I find something to use my points on.

I’m not how I found this, but Amazon has an option to link to a Hilton Honors account so that you can use points to purchase items. I did, and my 3,000 points are worth around $6.

Perhaps it’s less than life-changing, but I thought it was notable!

What inspired you in 2017?

It’s a Dolly Parton Kind of Day

I have been looking forward to this day for quite some time. It’s the first official day that I’m working out of the luxurious Casa Pena Designs office.

That’s a fancy way to say that I’m working at Heidi’s kitchen table while she’s crouched over her desk-like cubby, in the corner with the weird shadow. But it’s our first official collaboration day, and it’s exciting!

I Always Find Inspiration Outside My Comfort Zone

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My comfort zone = my house (+ dogs + refrigerator).

Today, the inspiration began before I even left the city. My normal radio stations weren’t giving me what I needed, so I reached over and grabbed the book of CD’s (I know, I’m old AF) that slid out from under the passenger seat.

I chose at random, and the universe richly rewarded me with the familiar opening of Dolly Parton’s Jolene: 

Man, I love this song. It’s so good, and there are so many great iterations of it, like this one:

The fact that she sang it with her goddaughter, Miley Cyrus is almost too much for me to handle. But the time she did a collabo with Pentatonix and nailed it so hard I involuntarily burst into tears of joy, it was too much:

Or how Drunk History shared the origin story of the song. If it’s true, then Dolly Parton finds inspiration everywhere, too!

Dolly Parton is More than Big Hair and Big Talent

While Dolly Parton’s talent easily earns my respect, I’ve loved her for as long as I can remember because there are so many stories like this one, as depicted by Drunk History:

Recently, I was moved to tears, yet again, when I learned of her long-term generosity for the nearly 900 victims of Tennessee wildfires. This article outlines the details, but reader beware: you’re going to fall in love with Dolly Parton!

My Annual Date with Dolly Parton and Kenny Rogers

I could go on and on, but I think you get it – I love Dolly Parton. From where I sit, she represents all that is good in the world, and the epitome of this sentiment is captured in my favorite holiday album, Once Upon a Christmas, a collabo with Kenny Rogers.

 

As per tradition, I’ll be listening to this album, nonstop, from the day after Thanksgiving to December 25th.

Dolly Parton, you are most certainly good design. Thank you for the inspiration today and always. I love you.